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(including sex) were hurt or threatened. So we were sore. We were “burned up.’’
On our grudge list we set opposite each name our injuries. Was it our self-esteem, our security, our am bitions, our personal, or sex relations, which had been interfered with?
We were usually as definite as this example:
My employer Unreasonable—Unjust Self-esteem (fear)
— Overbearing — Security.
Threatens to fire me for drinking and padding my ex pense account.
My wife Misunderstands and Pride—Personal
nags. Likes Brown. sex relations— Wants house put in Security (fear) her name.
We went back through our lives. Nothing counted but thoroughness and honesty. When we were fin ished we considered it carefully. The first thing ap
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